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My terminology isn't right but I get emails every day from people who say they are thinking about buying but need more information. They ask for the taxes, rents, utilities, fees and all that jazz for every listing they saw advertised that they thought was 'purdy' and they aren't even in town right now. They're thinking of buying sometime this year and are just starting to do their research. I send them follow up emails to let them know about new listings and price reductions. This emailing or calling goes back and forth for months and then the trail goes cold and they won't return my calls or my emails. I've been used and people complain about salespeople? I'm about of the mindset to start acting in a way that is in my best interest. My new motto is "All is fair in love and sales. Protect yourself at all times."
I can feel your frustration; even anger perhaps. Here are some thoughts:
1. No matter what you do, you'll have people "use" you. Accept it.
2. Your focus should be on converting more of these leads to sales. If you're not selling enough to meet your expectations, you need to figure out why that is. Making that determination in a forum like this is probably not feasible, but working with a sales coach or someone else who can help you would be advisable. Assuming there are people that are successful (or more successful than you) in your industry, then you've got to figure out what you're doing that's contributing to not converting this leads into customers at the rate which you desire.
3. Just because a customer asks for something doesn't mean you have to give it to them. You need to have a sales process that works...and rarely does giving out boatloads of free information work. The challenge is to LEVERAGE that information into revenue for yourself.
4. I believe anger is never helpful to the salesperson. It's a damaging emotion that prevents salespeople from doing what they need to do to be successful. It gets in the way. Work to control it. Anger is not your friend.
5. In the many threads you've expressed frustration with your prospects here at SP, I've always felt that your opportunity for improvement is in the area of needs assessment. Like many salespeople, you probably need to do a much better job of determining what will product/service details are important to the prospect, and if met, will make him comfortable enough to buy. NOTE: this is not necessarily what the customer is tell you; you need to put on your investigator's hat!
I know those are generalities, Thomas, but hopefully you'll find some tidbit here helpful.
Skip -Skip Anderson