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Recognition of faces and names
Back in the early 90's I met this guy in sales. I was busy with my business and made many of the cardinal sins of business. I wasn't very proactive with it. This guy was my lumber salesman.
Now, if you remember the time, cell phones were just starting to hit and get big. There was no caller ID to speak of like there is today.
This guy had something about him. You just knew it. He had..."it" He was damn good at what he did. He outsold all others in the building combined.
But one thing amazed the hell out of me. He literally had hundreds of clients. He would be getting calls all day long. He would answer the phone, the person on the other end would say "Hello" or whatever, and this guy knew instantly who it was. No hesitation, no nothing. I tried to trick him one day because he said everyone has a specific way they talk when someone answers the phone. He still knew it was me.
Now I have never tried improving my skills in this area, I have been sadly negligent in this area. I have had minimal success in recognizing even peoples faces, let alone their voices. My sad skill is to input their phone numbers in my address book and it comes up on caller ID. Not the way I want to continue for obvious reasons.
Reading the post on skills I don't want anyone to take it the wrong way what I ask. But how did this guy do it? What kind of training did he do with himself to improve? I definitely do not mean "what's his trick" or anything like that.
I am expecting to be in contact with a similar amount of clients and it is very painfully obvious to me that it will hinder my business if I hem and haw my way through a call because I don't remember who is on the other end of the phone, or worse, I don't recognize the person and they say "hey! how's the so and so going" and I draw a blank.
Do you ever get into a situation where you meet say 6 people standing together and you are introduced, they go left to right, right to left or whatever and you forget the first guys name instantly? This is what I am talking about. I forget almost all of their names by the time 1 minute goes by.
Right now this is what I am doing to help. The caller id thing helps. Every time I meet with someone, right after the meeting, I go to a quiet place and write down details of the conversation, etc. I log in calls of who I talk with. I have a voice recorder on my BB. All of these things are helping minimally.
Any advice? Anyone I should be reading? Listening to on audio CD's? I think in the simplest of descriptions, what I'm saying is, my memory is pretty bad. - by kwhitten
You are over thinking this. It is really very simple. How do you talk to people you know? How do you talk to your friends? Clients are people you have spent time with got to know, built a relationship with; be yourself, know your product, be honest and always do what is best for your client. That is the "it" in my opinion. Be yourself, know your product and always be honest and put the interest of your client first.
Warmest Regards - by MPrince
I really agree with you. Selling is more than a one time sale. The art of great sales comes from relationship building and integrity. Build customers for the long haul. You will make the sales and love your life! - by The Dynamic Business
It is my opinion that you have to "Pay" with "Attention" instead of in one ear and out the other. When you are free from distractions both internal and external and focus in the moment as you connect with your client remembering names and faces will no longer be a challenge. - by Houston
This is a simple memory trick that many people do use. Carangie Training helps you develop this. If you try to remember just the persons name then you are going to have a hard time with straight memorization. The trick is to associate everything with a mental image of something so outragous that you automatically remember it.
Example: The 13 colonies in the order they became colonies:
Picture a huge Deli Window, the kind you see at the old time deli's. A huge ball point Pen comes breaking threw the deli window and lands in the middle of the floor. On top of the Pen is a New Jersey calf. Sitting on top of the cow, is King George. King George has two Cuts on his head connected by a bandage. On top of King Georges head is a Huge train, going around in circles. Out of the smoke stack, comes a Doctors bag with gold stenciling of M.D. Out of the Doctors bag is a red convertible going south, with a girl in a bikini driving it. On the hood of the red convertible, is a brand new canned Ham. On top of the canned ham is a lady in high heels singing "Ole Virginia" on top of the lady's head sits the Statue of Liberty. There is a blue sedan driving North from the head of the Statue of Liberty. On top of car sits a Rhode Island Red Rooster crowing.
Deli Window- Delaware
Ball Point Pen- Pensylvania
New Jersey Calf- New Jersey
King George- Georgia
Two cuts connected by bandaid- Conneticut
Huge Train- Massachusettes (Massive Cho-Cho)
Doctors Bag- Maryland
Red Convertible Driving South-South Carolina (Car driving South)
New can of canned ham-New Hampshire
Lady singing Old Virginia- Virginia
Statue of Liberty- New York
Blue Sedan Driving north- North Carolina
Rhode Island Red rooster- Rhode Island
Learned that in 5th grade and still remember it - by jrboyd
huge tip when anyone speaks the word elephant do you see the spelling of it or do you visualize an elephant?
Put the client's name to a visual setting or similar. I meet a lady named alice. I put her name to the song alices restaurant. When I see her I can pul up alice. Relate the name to something you know. - by rich34232
I gave you this big spill about getting ot know your client and didn't fully read all your post and I am sorry for that. I have the same problem you do. Sometimes I can't remember my name but you have to realize you are only human and so is everyone else. They are struggling to remember your name at the same time. One thing I do is this; when I am introduced to someone I repeat their name when I shake their hand. I also am not ashamed to ask them to repeat their name again. People like to hear their names so they don't mind telling you again what it is. The most important thing is relax. The more you worry about it the harder it will be to focus on what is going on around you, You will be just fine! - by MPrince
I gave you this big spill about getting ot know your client and didn't fully read all your post and I am sorry for that. I have the same problem you do. Sometimes I can't remember my name but you have to realize you are only human and so is everyone else. They are struggling to remember your name at the same time. One thing I do is this; when I am introduced to someone I repeat their name when I shake their hand. I also am not ashamed to ask them to repeat their name again. People like to hear their names so they don't mind telling you again what it is. The most important thing is relax. The more you worry about it the harder it will be to focus on what is going on around you, You will be just fine!
it's all cool. no problem. You're right, maybe I'm taking it too seriously.
This is one thing I have struggled with and I feel that not remembering peoples names will be detrimental - by kwhitten
First thing you know this will all be second nature to you and the more you do it the better you will get at it. Don't be afraid of it and it will work itself out. It is certainly not going to be detrimental to your success. Make a joke about it to your clients. You may find they are just like you. The fact that you care so much lets me know that you will be a huge success!
Warmest Regards - by MPrince
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