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I would use neither as per your examples.
I agree with Ace. There are very few occasions when you actually over-control conversation, as in your two examples. None that are used when the process is one that involves a co-operative buyer.
There are several closes that use closed probes this way. But they are all in situations where you are "loosing" not in any where you are or appear to be "winning".
This is 1000% better;
"_____________ (you should be on a first name basis by now), you agreed that the color of this vehicle is one you like [don't pause for an answer!] and the sun-roof is a great feature that will allow you to enjoy driving on sunny days [don't pause], and the dual climate control is a perfect option, which gives you _____________ [whatever the benefit is], that leaves me with one question [don't pause]. If I was able to influence the dealer to arrange a great price for you, would that be enough incentive for you to be going home today as the proud new owner of this awesome ____________ (car/truck/van/SUV)?"
And, for God's sake, shut up after that question. The process is restating the benefits, then "any question the answer to which confirms they bought."
If the answer is no, your reply is; "Oh? why not?"
The repeated closed probes is only used when the person has said no and you are not sure why. And, the way you use the statement of features, there is no benefit to them - no reminder of why they love them or will ... use word pictures, it is one of the most powerful techniques in selling. -Gold Calling
I'm not sure I'm capable of distinguishing the nuances of your examples.
Aloha... :cool: shds; -rattus58