Are You Selling Ideas?

Never more than now do I realize it is a time for selling ideas. Prospects are smarter, well read, and in the know. You can no longer walk into a prospects business and say let me sell you an advertising schedule. You have to walk in prepared. Prepared to fulfill a need and give the prospect ideas he hasn’t heard before and will not hear from the next media sales rep coming in behind you. The days of order taking are gone and if you plan to stay in the game you had better learn the old, new rules. In this day of business we have got to be quicker, smarter, tougher, stronger and more creative.

You must take that extra few minutes and research your prospects industry. Look for ways that "may" have worked in the past. Then, be bold with your suggestions, and do not be afraid to try new ideas. Brain storm with your prospect and get his ideas. Lets face it, no one else will know his business better than he does. Get him involved with his commercial ideas by revving up his own creative juices. This will give him ownership to what you are doing. I am a believer in allowing the client face time in "his" commercial. This not only gives him ownership but branding. I cannot STRESS enough how absolutely vital it is that you Listen, Listen, Listen to what your prospect is telling you is best for his business. If you are listening to what he is telling you he is no longer a prospect but a client! -MPrince
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Lets face it, no one else will know his business better than he does.
I always admire and value your posts and this is no exception.

I often suspect, though, that many business owners do not know their business as well as they should.

That creates an obstacle for the salesperson. It would be fatal to convey that even if it is apparent. We need common ground to get the prospect moving forward in his/her thinking. A good selling process founded on engagement, mutual trust and respect, and sincere intent, can produce not only that common ground, but broaden the prospect's perspective and transcend natural and common resistance. -Ace Coldiron
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This is where a good sales person comes in...you put forth an idea in such a way that it appears to be the client's. Again, this comes from listening, knowing the clients business and knowing what he wants and what should be accomplished. If you have built that bridge of trust he will walk across. -MPrince
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In my industry (search engine optimization), I usually have to prepare 1+ hours for my prospect before my pitch, since their need and keywords are so different. But I think they really like this style and would like to buy from someone who is willing to prepare and did a good homework -SEO-Tampa
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Never more than now do I realize it is a time for selling ideas. Prospects are smarter, well read, and in the know. You can no longer walk into a prospects business and say let me sell you an advertising schedule. You have to walk in prepared. Prepared to fulfill a need and give the prospect ideas he hasn’t heard before and will not hear from the next media sales rep coming in behind you. The days of order taking are gone and if you plan to stay in the game you had better learn the old, new rules. In this day of business we have got to be quicker, smarter, tougher, stronger and more creative.

You must take that extra few minutes and research your prospects industry. Look for ways that "may" have worked in the past. Then, be bold with your suggestions, and do not be afraid to try new ideas. Brain storm with your prospect and get his ideas. Lets face it, no one else will know his business better than he does. Get him involved with his commercial ideas by revving up his own creative juices. This will give him ownership to what you are doing. I am a believer in allowing the client face time in "his" commercial. This not only gives him ownership but branding. I cannot STRESS enough how absolutely vital it is that you Listen, Listen, Listen to what your prospect is telling you is best for his business. If you are listening to what he is telling you he is no longer a prospect but a client!
Hi Mary/Martha.... :)

Who could disagree.... Mothers and Apple Pie.... yummy... :)

Aloha.... Tom -rattus58
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This is especially true in my industry(printing). Gone are the days when a client would order 10,000 catalogs or custom letterhead. Now they put the catalog online and print the letterheads themselves.

Printing has turned into a cutthroat business with things like flyers and business cards taking up much of the pie. But who really wants to be stuck doing runs of 250 business cards for 100,000 people? We've had to be creative to survive, there is no doubt. New products and unique ideas are what this industry needs. I think packaging and marketing are still key players and hopefully always will be. -Thufir
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This is especially true in my industry(printing). Gone are the days when a client would order 10,000 catalogs or custom letterhead. Now they put the catalog online and print the letterheads themselves.

Printing has turned into a cutthroat business with things like flyers and business cards taking up much of the pie. But who really wants to be stuck doing runs of 250 business cards for 100,000 people? We've had to be creative to survive, there is no doubt. New products and unique ideas are what this industry needs. I think packaging and marketing are still key players and hopefully always will be.
Thufir

Anyone can print a card but only "you" have "your" ideas. Only you can involve the client, listen to his concerns and bring his/your ideas to LIFE. -MPrince
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Hi Mary/Martha.... :)

Who could disagree.... Mothers and Apple Pie.... yummy... :)

Aloha.... Tom
I thought it was Baseball and Apple Pie...

Thanks My Friend! -MPrince
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In my industry (search engine optimization), I usually have to prepare 1+ hours for my prospect before my pitch, since their need and keywords are so different. But I think they really like this style and would like to buy from someone who is willing to prepare and did a good homework
SEO-Tampa

I'm sure you have no idea just how much your prospects and clients appreciate your hard work. Keep it up. It will serve you well. There is one thing I would suggest you do for existing clients.

Google News Alerts for all the industries you service. You can get daily or weekly updates on anything going on in their industry. You will get a lot of junk and you will have to skim through but you can do it fairly quickly. It gives you talking points or will give you a reason to go by, print it off and send a hand written note such as:

Dear Client,

I found this information in my research and felt it would be important to you.



I try to do this often and my clients seem to really appreciate it. Many times I find things they didn't know.

Best Regards -MPrince
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Thufir

Anyone can print a card but only "you" have "your" ideas. Only you can involve the client, listen to his concerns and bring his/your ideas to LIFE.

True, but printing business cards isn't going to keep me in business. Printing is becoming obsolete. The problem isn't about listening to the client, the problem is finding clients to listen to.

This is why many newspapers are going out of business. Ideas are what they need but it might be too late with the internet taking up all of their business.

I am managing but it is difficult. I keep my ideas close to my vest and secret. This si how I will survive.....hopefully. -Thufir
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The internet is not a living breathing person. The internet is a thing and with all it's wonderful avenues it still cannot fill your position. You have the upper-hand! -MPrince
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I believe that the relationship sales model is the best way to go.

By letting your prospect become more involved in the sales process you are setting yourself up for repeat business. -salesfist
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Hello Martha. I suppose I'm lucky because the new rules you've described are my "old rules". ;) -Jeff Blackwell
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Great Thread.

I have found since I have been going business to business people generally do not like to be sold, but they love to buy.
Empowering them to become part of the prospect to client process is quite a challenge however it does come back to the good old adage "Identify a prospect from a suspect!"
I agree with the whole building a relationship thing...that is incredible!

If being creative is the same as thinking outside the square I agree ... I am working on an incredible idea using the power of the internet as a prospecting tool that involves the facilitation, collaborative process.

Cheers'
Chris -teknacool
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Hello Martha. I suppose I'm lucky because the new rules you've described are my "old rules". ;)
Yes Jeff you are exactly right...it is the "old/new rules". The problem is we often must be reminded to simply, go back to the basics. -MPrince
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If being creative is the same as thinking outside the square I agree ... I am working on an incredible idea using the power of the internet as a prospecting tool that involves the facilitation, collaborative process.

Yes Chris...that is what it means. Looking for new and unique ways to get to your sales destination. That is how superstars are born! -MPrince
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The days of order taking are gone and if you plan to stay in the game you had better learn the new rules. In this day of business we have got to be quicker, smarter, tougher, stronger and more creative.
Order taking days are over, and most companies don't remember/know what it means to 'sell'. It isn't just doing your presentation and having a nice suit or lovely smile and hair. Now more than ever you have to be listening to your prospect to hear his problems and focus on how you can help them resolve their problems. They will tell you what they need and are willing to buy, if you listen to them....that means asking questions and talking less. -Paulette Halpern
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The days of order taking are gone and if you plan to stay in the game you had better learn the new rules. In this day of business we have got to be quicker, smarter, tougher, stronger and more creative .......

Take that extra few minutes and research your prospects industry!
Two terms I very seldom use that appear quite frequently in discussions here are order taking and solutions.

I'll break that rule now by mentioning something about what "order taker" really means without looking down my nose at people who fit that category.

Order takers offer options. Professionals who sell offer solutions. Order taking is the very nature of what some occupations require as a function. Nothing wrong with that. It is what it is. -Gary A Boye
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This thread reminds me of something I once read in a book on sales written in 1920:

"The selling process is making the prospect think what the salesman thinks regarding the line of goods or the proposition presented. It is a process of transferring mental images from the mind of the salesman to the mind of the prospect. And throughout the process the salesman should be the impelling party. If a man buys something from you for reasons of his own, which you did not stimulate in him, you are not entitled to say that you sold him the order. He bought. We are not considering here so-called sales which are closed principally because the buyer was looking for what the salesman brought him. We shall study the bona fide sale in which the salesman gets his ideas across to the mind of the prospect, against more or less resistance. Right here let us make a distinction. You do not sell goods; but ideas about goods. In many cases the goods themselves are not delivered until after the sale is completed." -Jeff Blackwell
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Right here let us make a distinction. You do not sell goods; but ideas about goods. In many cases the goods themselves are not delivered until after the sale is completed."

Jeff...you are right or, it can be an intangible product and the only way to sell it is through your creative ideas. By getting the prospect involved, talking, offering...your ideas become "his" ideas. -MPrince
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Right here let us make a distinction. You do not sell goods; but ideas about goods. In many cases the goods themselves are not delivered until after the sale is completed."

Jeff...you are right or, it can be an intangible product and the only way to sell it is through your creative ideas. By getting the prospect involved, talking, offering...your ideas become "his" ideas.
In B2B, commodities are often bought out of the very real need for sustanance.

People take orders for those commodities, and some of those people make a lot of money. They have positioned themselves to be the source. Where does the "idea" lie in those cases?

That question is not meant as a challenge; it's merely asked to create a larger picture for this discussion. -Gary A Boye
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Gary, Could ,would the idea be that they are The Source? -rich34232
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In B2B, commodities are often bought out of the very real need for sustanance.

People take orders for those commodities, and some of those people make a lot of money. They have positioned themselves to be the source. Where does the "idea" lie in those cases?

That question is not meant as a challenge; it's merely asked to create a larger picture for this discussion.
I would like a clarification. I am not quite sure what your question is. Are you asking about the sales person that has positioned themselves as a source for their client? Or, are you asking where the ideas lie that the Sales Executive must create to fit each clients particular needs? Without knowing truly what you mean by your question it is hard to answer. -MPrince
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Gary, Could ,would the idea be that they are The Source?
Yes, Rich, that's where I'm heading on this. In my opinion, "order taking" can be the result of some successful strategic ground work. What often seems easy in so many activities is merely the result of some really good--and hard--work that came before. -Gary A Boye
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I would like a clarification. I am not quite sure what your question is. Are you asking about the sales person that has positioned themselves as a source for their client? Or, are you asking where the ideas lie that the Sales Executive must create to fit each clients particular needs? Without knowing truly what you mean by your question it is hard to answer.
I love your questions. I always talk about Intrinsic Questions, and those are examples. My answer is both.

Sometimes the all important Proposition remains ongoing. And in those venues of selling, what we label "order taking" is really the result of earning the "position." -Gary A Boye
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This thread reminds me of something I once read in a book on sales written in 1920:

"The selling process is making the prospect think what the salesman thinks regarding the line of goods or the proposition presented. It is a process of transferring mental images from the mind of the salesman to the mind of the prospect. And throughout the process the salesman should be the impelling party. If a man buys something from you for reasons of his own, which you did not stimulate in him, you are not entitled to say that you sold him the order. He bought. We are not considering here so-called sales which are closed principally because the buyer was looking for what the salesman brought him. We shall study the bona fide sale in which the salesman gets his ideas across to the mind of the prospect, against more or less resistance. Right here let us make a distinction. You do not sell goods; but ideas about goods. In many cases the goods themselves are not delivered until after the sale is completed."

Very good post. In fact, we never sell any-"thing"--it is impossible. Rather, we sell the symbolic meaning of the "thing."

The moment of the buy/sell exchange occurs, there is a mental shift between conceptual "release of ownership" and "new ownership."

Imagine you are in a grocery store and someone accidentally grabs our cart? Apologies and embaracement follows by the transgressor yet, the store still owned the cart and everything in it. As far as your concerned, the store released ownership of what is in the cart and the absent minded shopper agreed!

Seasoned sales people such as yourself, understand this mental transition well but it takes time to master the insight. -John Voris
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The moment of the buy/sell exchange occurs, there is a mental shift between conceptual "release of ownership" and "new ownership."

Love This!!! -MPrince
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Exactly true that in order to sell intangibles you must be able to deal in abstracts and ideas. Just as in all facets of business, collaboration allows for mutual benefits to be realized so that both parties are satisfied. You are the professional as a sales person who will guide your buyer through the sales process. The biggest idea you are selling is yourself as that professional. Your customer could go with anyone else...but since you are demonstrating how you are the obvious and only choice, they will believe it and hopefully refer you business. So it takes lots of persuasive ability and above all belief in your own abilities. -Guru4sale
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Right here let us make a distinction. You do not sell goods; but ideas about goods. In many cases the goods themselves are not delivered until after the sale is completed."

Jeff...you are right or, it can be an intangible product and the only way to sell it is through your creative ideas. By getting the prospect involved, talking, offering...your ideas become "his" ideas.
Yes, we never sell the "thing" but what the "thing" means. This is what symbolism is all about and what is essential to cover in any selling education format.

Symbolism also explains why prospects are often not buying what the sales rep truly believes he or she is selling. This disconnect is most often caused by the foundation of sales training being based on observable criteria. -John Voris
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Exactly true that in order to sell intangibles you must be able to deal in abstracts and ideas. Just as in all facets of business, collaboration allows for mutual benefits to be realized so that both parties are satisfied. You are the professional as a sales person who will guide your buyer through the sales process. The biggest idea you are selling is yourself as that professional. Your customer could go with anyone else...but since you are demonstrating how you are the obvious and only choice, they will believe it and hopefully refer you business. So it takes lots of persuasive ability and above all belief in your own abilities.
The idea is that you become a "source" for your client. You do that by asking questions and listening, listening, listening. By asking questions and listening you are allowing the prospect to tell you everything you need to know. You then build a bridge of trust between you and the client. When that happens your client will have no need to go with someone else because he totally trusts you and your opinion. And, why would he trust your opinion? Because you have Asked Questions, Listened and Acted on what he has said it would take to make him happy. Because you had enough respect for your clients opinion, wants, needs and desires that you took the time to hear them. To me it is so very simple. Maybe to simple for some. I see sales, be it tangible or intangible, as an act of mutual respect and trust between two people. At least that is my opinion. -MPrince
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I see sales, be it tangible or intangible, as an act of mutual respect and trust between two people. At least that is my opinion.
Hello Martha :)

If I was to pick the three areas in selling that I felt a student would benefit most from mastering they would be:
  1. Relationship (E.g.; trust and respect)
  2. Communication (E.g.; language and symbolism)
  3. Behavior (E.g.; decision-making process).
-Jeff Blackwell
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If I was to pick the three areas in selling that I felt a student would benefit most from mastering they would be:
  1. Relationship (E.g.; trust and respect)
  2. Communication (E.g.; language and symbolism)
  3. Behavior (E.g.; decision-making process).
Jeff

I completely agree with all three points. You build a relationship through "mutual" trust and respect. This has to happen through the right kind of communication(which is a lesson in itself). Paint a picture through language and symbolism then leads to a decision. -MPrince
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Jeff

I completely agree with all three points. You build a relationship through "mutual" trust and respect. This has to happen through the right kind of communication(which is a lesson in itself). Paint a picture through language and symbolism then leads to a decision.
We are on the same page. thmbp2;

If you are interested, the last piece of my "3-1 Outline" (working title) is Perceptiveness (E.g.; acumen, discernment, insight). msnwnk; -Jeff Blackwell
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I am interested Jeff...Thank you! -MPrince
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Jeff

I completely agree with all three points. You build a relationship through "mutual" trust and respect. This has to happen through the right kind of communication(which is a lesson in itself). Paint a picture through language and symbolism then leads to a decision.

Again Martha, very well said.

It is the profound dynamics of language as symbolic meaning, that is ultimately responsible for communication. This is a major issue which is generally missing in sales training today.

Traditional sales seminars, tend to focus on behavior presented in rigid models of technique or relationship building. While they both have importance, they are preceded by effective communication.

What if through communication: you knew what truly motivated your prospect; how valuable would that be; how would that change your relationship and; how differently would you behave? -John Voris
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We are on the same page. thmbp2;

If you are interested, the last piece of my "3-1 Outline" (working title) is Perceptiveness (E.g.; acumen, discernment, insight). msnwnk;
I am always interested in a real paradigm shift and this approach could easily qualify.

Today, we are still using sales models and techniques that are over 35 years old and older. They are just re-worked with a new face attached.

Imagine the medical world operating today having nothing new since 1975?

Comparing sales training against most other professions, we are still in the cave marking walls. Yet, experienced sales people are getting the job done. Is this yet another disconnect? -John Voris
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What if through communication: you knew what truly motivated your prospect; how valuable would that be; how would that change your relationship and; how differently would you behave?
John...thank you for your incredible insight. You have summed up in this one paragraph my whole philosophy of selling. It is completely possible to know, through communication (asking questions and listening) what truly motivates your prospect/client. It is only human nature for people to tell you everything you want to know if you ask and "listen". -MPrince
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John...thank you for your incredible insight. You have summed up in this one paragraph my whole philosophy of selling. It is completely possible to know, through communication (asking questions and listening) what truly motivates your prospect/client. It is only human nature for people to tell you everything you want to know if you ask and "listen".

Thank you for your generous comment but it was in reaction to someone who has an excellent grip on the humanitarian aspect of selling.

IMO, anyone who follows your advice will surly benefit ;bg -John Voris
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Today, we are still using sales models and techniques that are over 35 years old and older.
Hi John. sn;

For me, age of technique or sales model is not a selection criteria or indicator of value. I am concerned with what works. ;wi -Jeff Blackwell
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Hello Martha :)

If I was to pick the three areas in selling that I felt a student would benefit most from mastering they would be:
  1. Relationship (E.g.; trust and respect)
  2. Communication (E.g.; language and symbolism)
  3. Behavior (E.g.; decision-making process).
I will humbly throw my hat in the ring and share my deepest core belief about selling. I do so with the utmost admiration for the people presently engaged on this subtopic. First, however, I want to say that I also believe with all my heart that it is significantly more important in selling to identify OPPORTUNITIES than to spend too much time identifying behavior. Sales training concentrates a lot on the latter. Real life top producers search mostly for opportunities.

Now my deepest core belief--one which I filter all new information through:
There are FOUR THINGS that determine our success in selling.

Four Things

Every potential customer you meet is comparing the EXPERIENCE they have with you to the experiences they have with others. Your success in selling comes from making the other experiences pale by comparison.

INTRINSIC QUESTIONS are the building blocks of a sale.

PREPAREDNESS is the most important skill in selling.

CLOSING is a progression of consent.
Not so complicated, really? -Gary A Boye
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Hi John. sn;

For me, age of technique or sales model is not a selection criteria or indicator of value. I am concerned with what works. ;wi

Hey Jeff,

I agree, the source does not matter regardless of age. It is the result that it offers that should be our focus.

My point was that the sales industry in general, has not progressed as most other industries. While we rely on inventions and discoveries that are centuries old, we have also made vast improvements.

All too often, a sales rep will give an obsolete technique credit for what they have been doing naturally all along. With this new awareness, he or she would have real control over what has been moving sales forward unconsciously but now have control.

This was also in response to your "3-1" Outline and the fact that much of training today needs a shot in the arm sn; -John Voris
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My point was that the sales industry in general, has not progressed as most other industries.
Hi John. ;sm

Perhaps we share a similar frustration regarding sales education and training today however for different reasons.

I am of the opinion that you could go back thousands of years in history and find that the four (3-1 Outline) areas mentioned previously were as much at play then (in everyday life, selling, etc.) as they are today. -Jeff Blackwell
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Hi John. ;sm

Perhaps we share a similar frustration regarding sales education and training today however for different reasons.

I am of the opinion that you could go back thousands of years in history and find that the four (3-1 Outline) areas mentioned previously were as much at play then (in everyday life, selling, etc.) as they are today.
Jeff,

Symbolism is not taught in the business community as a working tool. It is not taught in any sales seminar, workshop, nor on a CD. The complexity of symbolism has been well known but basically in academic circles, not in the content of daily communication.

The dynamics of symbolism goes beyond verbal and non-verbal languages. The symbols we use reveal who we are and our innermost needs that are missed in most conventional sales training methods. When symbolism is mentioned is followed by very poor and inaccurate interpretation.

Now, relationship, behavior and technique has, but not symbolism.

But that was not my point. My comment focused on the lack of substantial improvement in modern sales approaches.

I was welcoming your presentation of your (3-1 Outline) because you included language and symbolism. Language alone is a subject so large that the books written on the subject would fill a floor of an average book store. That gives you an idea of how much is missed.
sn; -John Voris
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Symbolism is not taught in the business community as a working tool. It is not taught in any sales seminar, workshop, nor on a CD. The complexity of symbolism has been well known but basically in academic circles, not in the contest of daily communication.

The dynamics of symbolism goes beyond verbal and non-verbal languages. The symbols we use reveal who we are and our innermost needs that are missed in most conventional sales training methods. When symbolism is mentioned is followed by very poor and inaccurate interpretation.

Now, relationship has and behavior and technique has, but not symbolism.
We are in agreement. thmbp2;

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I was welcoming your presentation of your (3-1 Outline)
Thank you. ;sm -Jeff Blackwell
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Jeff,

The symbols we use reveal who we are and our innermost needs that are missed in most conventional sales training methods. When symbolism is mentioned is followed by very poor and inaccurate interpretation.
John, I disagree with that statement.

The words that make up any language are symbols. They are much more often used to support a persona that reveals not who we are, but who we would like to be perceived as. It is our emotions, not our symbols that reveal who we are---whether the symbol is a word, an automobile, or a pinky ring. -Gary A Boye
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John, I disagree with that statement.

The words that make up any language are symbols. They are much more often used to support a persona that reveals not who we are, but who we would like to be perceived as. It is our emotions, not our symbols that reveal who we are---whether the symbol is a word, an automobile, or a pinky ring.
Hey Gary,

Here is a message I sent Jeff regarding a similar issue.

Everything that has a name is a symbol. That begins the journey.

You are right that one part of us communicates: "but who we would like to be perceived as." But this is only half of the story as said below.

The Authentic virtues always trumps emotions even when it permits us to be irrational.


Synthetic Identity (socially based persona)

You are very different than when when you were 20 years old.

That is easy to grasp: we all change by learning, engaging in relationships and having a variety of experiences that contribute to our over all maturation over time. However, these changes are tethered to a fundamental identity we want displayed to the public as a Synthetic Identity.

Without this flexible capacity we could not meet the unforeseeable challenges in daily life as we mature in time.

Authentic Identity
(personally based virtue)

You are no different than when you were 20 years old.

This is also easy to grasp: we all have a sense of self that never changes through time; it is a consistent way of being that enables us to have relationships with others; friends, wives and husbands, can rely on our stable internal drive. How else could we hold a job if everyday you were completely someone else with different wants and desires?

Without this stable perspective, we could never complete a goal or even decide on any one profession--we would always be changing.

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We all feel these two aspects of ourselves.

We look in the mirror and wonder how we got so old because we can recall the feeling of being a teenager. That is why, "the more things change the more they stay the same."

We are all driven by this single drive which is to express our Authentic Identity. And it is this Identity that constantly needs validation, verification and purpose, all done through conforming symbols of meaning.

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So, in your house there are "things" (symbols of meaning) that conforms to your unique Authentic Identity.

This expression is saying; I am alive; I have value; I matter; and I make a difference.

In fact, SalesPractice is one of many symbols that conform to your Authentic Identity. If it did not--you would not be here.

There is much more to this. In fact, I offer seminars on learning how to "read" the conforming symbols of their clients to find their Authentic motivation.

It is complex and this is a brief explanation. If you have any other questions, don't hesitate to ask. -John Voris
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It is complex and this is a brief explanation. If you have any other questions, don't hesitate to ask.
No questions. Only a thought to express that I follow a path in life that would exclude most of that information. As you know, we all live in different worlds because we all see the world differently. So we filter information from other people's worlds differently. -Gary A Boye
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No questions. Only a thought to express that I follow a path in life that would exclude most of that information. As you know, we all live in different worlds because we all see the world differently. So we filter information from other people's worlds differently.

Yes I agree.

The difference is I needed to learn and adapt many techniques, methods, and philosophies concerning sales as crutches. Whereas you have been able to generate success from your innate and natural abilites.

Naturally, my interpretation seems incompatible to you given we are coming from very different life capacities. You bypassed my needs. -John Voris
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