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Hello John. For my own clarity, would you please elaborate on what you mean by, "...the perpetual need to express the authentic identity that forms the sense of individual self over time."? Thank you. thmbp2;
Research shows:
Synthetic Identity (socially based persona)
You are very different than when when you were 20 years old.
That is easy to grasp: we all change by learning, engaging in relationships and having a variety of experiences that contribute to our over all maturation over time. However, these changes are tethered to a fundamental identity we want displayed to the public as a Synthetic Identity.
Without this flexible capacity we could not meet the unforeseeable challenges in daily life as we mature in time.
Authentic Identity (personally based virtue)
You are no different than when you were 20 years old.
This is also easy to grasp: we all have a sense of self that never changes through time; it is a consistent way of being that enables us to have relationships with others; friends, wives and husbands, can rely on our stable internal drive. How else could we hold a job if everyday you were completely someone else with different wants and desires?
Without this stable perspective, we could never complete a goal or even decide on any one profession--we would always be changing.
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We all feel these two aspects of ourselves.
We look in the mirror and wonder how we got so old because we can recall the feeling of being a teenager. That is why, "the more things change the more they stay the same."
We are all driven by this single drive which is to express our Authentic Identity. And it is this Identity that constantly needs validation, verification and purpose, all done through conforming symbols of meaning.
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So, in your house there are "things" (symbols of meaning) that conforms to your unique Authentic Identity.
This expression is saying; I am alive; I have value; I matter; and I make a difference.
In fact, SalesPractice is one of many symbols that conform to your Authentic Identity. If it did not--you would not be here.
There is much more to this. In fact, I offer seminars on learning how to "read" the conforming symbols of their clients to find their Authentic motivation.
It is complex and this is a brief explanation. If you have any other questions, don't hesitate to ask. -John Voris
If I have a desire to join two pieces of wood, I now have a need created for a tool... now the choice is, do I want to nail it or screw it, or bolt it together. Whatever that desire it, I have created a need.
If I'm in the hardware store business, on the other hand, I might advertise joining wood pieces together and suggest we have the means, but will help you determine right way for you.
Aloha... :cool: -rattus58