by Marc Hogan
www.persuasion-skills.co.uk
What do you want?
Think about it. . .
Do you want?
- A great Job!
- The girl who's been eyeing you up in the office.
- The boy who's been eyeing you up in the office!
- A loving partner.
- Lots of partners!
- The big sale.
- The bigger promotion!
- To ace the interview
- To be confident in any social situation
- To be a great Communicator / Teacher / Friend
So, do you want the secrets of how to achieve these goals . . .?
The Advanced NLP Secrets of Liking and Attractiveness
For those of who you read last month's article on The Secrets of Advanced NLP Anchoring.
Each emotional state that you occupy has a specific physiology.
Everything from your voice tone to your posture, facial expressions, body movements and attitude.
When you shift states all of these things change.
Think about it. When you are worried, angry, neutral, curious, relaxed and happy you have completely different attitude.
People love to feel the emotional states that they get when they are around friends or people they find incredibly attractive.
Whatever you feel inside, it is important to project a positive and attractive image.
Perception is reality!
Your image is based on your appearance, the way you talk, walk, smile, make eye contact and hold yourself
People can be influenced within 3 seconds - that's how quickly the human brain can make a decision!
So the more attractive you can appear the better the decision!
And the thing is, it's easy to become more attractive.
With me the first thing you learn at my NLP seminar is the
importance of state!
It's important to picture yourself as you want to be and project it forcefully.
Remember a time when you looked and felt great - and everyone loved you! (for those of you who attend my seminar - this is a great anchor).
Now let's fire it up!
That's it remember the way you looked, the way you smiled, the way you held yourself - fantastic!
And as you read this remember all those times that you have charm, wit and confidence. Remember all those great feelings, and how good it feels . . .
Now as you do that think about how great this feeling is and if you can double it!!
How good does that feel?
And how great it would be to enter all conversations in this way!!
Now here's the really powerful bit . . .
When in conversation with a person link all those things that they find attractive to you!!
How?
Ask powerful questions!!
Ask them about
- Their ideal holiday!
- Their ideal excitement!
- Their favourite activity!
- Even ask whose their sexiest movie star is!
You put people in these states and they will associate these good feelings with you!
If you read my
Secrets of NLP Anchoring Newsletter you could anchor these great states and fire them any time!!
I'll be covering more of this in my Seminars
I'll teach you instant techniques to set these states in you and others!
Not only is this great fun, but it will provide you with more confidence in any social situation.
So once again
"What do you want?"
