Marcus,
To me, there are definite triggers that tell me I'm being "sold". Of course, some of that could be because I sell, too. Here are the kinds of things that raise a red flag for me:
- Any time someone's first words when I answer the phone are "How are you today?"
- "If I could show you how [whatever], would you buy today?"
- "But, you would like to save money on your [marketing, utility costs, long distance phone charges or whatever] wouldn't you?
- "We're just asking you to try [the product/service], there's no obligation!"
I think you get the idea -- any time I tell someone that I am not interested in their product/service, and they try to play on the weaknesses they perceive I have, I feel like I'm being "sold".
Kathleen