Wow great thread, most of the books I love are listed here.
Here are some books that have changed my life that hasn't been listed would be.
Anthony Robbins - Personal Power I & II, Awaking the Giant within, The power to influence
Jack Canfield - The Aladdin Factor
Maxwell Maltz and Dan Kennedy - The New Psycho-Cybernetics
Jim Rohns 2004 Weekend Leadership Event
Eckhart Tolle - The power of Now, New earth
Thomas stanley - Millionaire Next door
Deepak Chopra - Seven Spiritual Laws of Success
J. Earl Shoaff - How to Get Everything You Want Out of Life
Robert Dilts - Slight of mouth
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Originally Posted by Gary Boye
Milton, or other serious students of NLP:
In the forward to Hall's The Spirit of NLP, he mentions the NLP Communication Guideline as being "the meaning of your communication is the response you get".
Can someone comment on or clarify Hall's statement?
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Originally Posted by Gary Boye
Is it a matter of taking responsibility for our communications? Yes--I think so--but more in the context of taking responsibility of understanding our communications and in obsrving how their meanings travel both inductively and deductively.
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Yes I think you are exactly right.
In my NLP training we did a test where we had 4 groups of 6 people each and the instructor gave us index cards.
He told us to write down 4 posible definitions for the word education. Then we were to get together with our group and see how many matches we had. In all the groups there were only 3 matches.meaning there were 96 definitions and all but 3 were different.
The point is that it is rare that we can be sure someone is understanding our communication.
Eckhart Tolle put it this way "You can't possibly explain the universe with 5 vowel sounds"