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Gary,
I agree and disagree with you. Selling is a process, it starts with bonding and rapport and bonding and rapport must be present throughout the process. One of the strongest bonding and rapport (trustbuilding) tools is to make your prospect aware first, that no is OK. Secondly, to inform the prospect of how the process works (isn't that more refreshing than the dog and pony show most "salespeople" deliver and waste the prospect's time.
Selling is all about trust. Most prospects don't trust sales people. The more you act like, talk like, walk like and dillydallie around, the more your prospect's have a reason to mistrust you.
Disarming honesty is not only refreshing to the prospect, but it set's you ahead of your competition as a professional and consultative salesperson.
OK.. fair enough..but let's explore it further.
First of all, rapport is NOT trustbuilding. You could have two sociopath professional con artists telling lies to one another with mega-rapport.
If you want to substitute Conditions of Mutual Trust and Respect for the stale word "rapport", then we can get to the same page.
Second, in spite of what most sales trainers say, selling is not a process--it is an ENGAGEMENT.
I agree wholeheartedly with the message that NO IS OK, as did the late David Sandler, and his recent pastiche, Jim Camp (
Start With NO). However, the examples that you gave on how to deliver that message are what I described as horrible (and still do describe that way).
Third, we DON"T describe "how the process works." If we are good--really good--we tell them how WE work. Examples: "Let me tell you how I work with clients." or "Let me tell you what I believe." (Very powerful--those seven words.)
Fourth, we don't "disarm" people with our honesty. They disarm themselves. That is the power of engagement over control. Your suggestions are of the latter.
Fifth, consultative selling is another topic. -Gary A Boye
The objection "we need to think about it", like almost all objections, can mean many different things. The first thing I would suggest is discovering through questioning what the buyer meant when they voiced that objection. -Agent Smith