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Is There A Bright Side To Leaving A Job That Makes Money But Stresses Out Your Spouse

Is ANY job worth the stress it puts on your spouse and the relationship you share? Lately I have encountered this problem when my fiancee voiced to me that she felt that my job was taking "too much time from us" and that the time we DID spend was "lower in quality" because I am usually so stressed out about the responsibilities I have. Among those responsibities are: garbage duty, cleaning duty for the entire store, writing up appraisals, taking in and delivering repairs, phones, mailing, advertising, ordering, contacting vendors for repairs and concerns, estimates, selling on the floor, opening and closing the store, etc... the list goes on, though the main point to make...is that there is little to no margin for error (I work alongside the owners). :hu But the big point to make is how it has effected the life I share with my fiancee as I have found out on multiple occasions. There are so many reasons to stay at this job....it supports our lifestyle quite well considering she can only work part time at minimum wage because she is a full time student, but I am thinking that somehow that is not enough.

Should I stay at a job to maintain a lifestyle that we both share, or is the additional stress not worth maintaining this lifestyle?
I am just worried that if I transfer to a lower paying job (which are plentiful in my area):sa , would I just be creating an additional stress while solving the other?

Confusion and pain...are the inspirations for all things beautiful....am I making the right choice to lower the standards of my job placement to improve the quality of my home life?

Anyone with advice is GREATLY appreciated....hopefully I'm not the ONLY one who has...or is going through this.:cu

Sincerely,
David - by truesaxman
David in my opinion working at any position that isn't in harmony with other aspects of your life is a recipe for being miserable.

Are there other positions or companies you can work at that might be a better fit? - by AZBroker
David in my opinion working at any position that isn't in harmony with other aspects of your life is a recipe for being miserable.

Are there other positions or companies you can work at that might be a better fit?
AZ,
I believe there are MANY jobs that I would be able to WORK in and be quite proficient at....but if I would LOVE to do them, is another story. I am just trying to stay away from getting caught in a job that is "just a job" and find unhappiness through that.:hu It is just REALLY tough because there is such a shortage of "SOLID FULL-TIME" jobs in my area that I live, and if I don't find something that will pay more than most jobs would be willing to pay...then I fear that I will be inviting MORE stress because then there will be "money troubles". So far....this is the highest paying job I could find around here. *Sighs* it almost seems that my fiancee is focusing on the "job" because it is the cause of our troubles....but what is it to say that if I were to switch and theoretically get a lower paying job, that "money" wont be the cause of our troubles next time?

Any insight would be greatly appreciated.:cu

Sincerely,
David - by truesaxman
Here's the thing David, in life you get what you *ask* for. That's not a cliche that's a fact. This by the way is great news for anyone who knows what they want and how to ask and not so great news for everyone else.

When you build into the desired outcome for your life balance between home and work you're setting the stage for it's manifestation. (*Ask* and you shall receive.)

Would you be willing to invest $4.95 to watch an online video that could change the course of your life? Seriously.

If your answer is yes then here you go: http://thesecret.tv/ - by AZBroker
First off.....could you kindly clarify how the *ask* and you shall recieve piece of your advice, and how it directly relates to the core of my concerns?
And secondly.....I don't particularly follow on your last words.... I admit I only caught a glimp