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Originally Posted by Jorel
I did not like the salesman I bought my boat from. He was not someone I could trust. He was not someone I who called me back when he said he would. He was not someone who completed the order the way it was written in the contract. However because I did not like him and because I felt like he did not have my best interest in mind I did not mind using tactics to get the lowest price for my boat as I could. And the price is the only reason I bought the boat where I did. So I can not agree with your statement that if a client likes you their not going to buy from you.
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Perhaps you are the exception to the rule...there's an exception to every rule, maybe I am, who knows? I would ask for a new salesman...I'm still going to haggle on price to a point...just because I know how the game works...
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Originally Posted by Jorel
This is old school building rapport and I am happy to hear it works for you. If someone tries to do this to mean it screams sales person and I am totally turned off. I will then treat the salesperson like they are acting.
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Please! Old school? A sales person is weather you're trying to build rapport or not, just that, a sales person.
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Originally Posted by Jorel
This really bothers me why do you bother to ask about their kids, dogs and school they went to if you don't actually care? To get the sale? Well if that works for you and you can sleep at night being manipulative like that, then it is no wonder so many people do not like sales people.
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Now, perhaps I didn't express myself quite right...obviously I'm going to ask about something that I AM interested in....I would never, ever lie to get the sale....I am a people person, I like learning about people in addition to learning about people and increasing my network of friends and influence - I like helping people, if I can help them and make a sale, even better.
It doesn't appear that my statements before would bother you at all, as you state that it does, as it doesn't appear that people mean much to you at all - you're in it for the sale and if wasn't for the people in the way you wouldn't even talk to them.
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Originally Posted by Jorel
Again I point to my first example of my boat buying experience. I probably would have bought faster and not have negotiated so hard on the price had this sales person taken the time to treat a customer the way a customer wants to be treated.
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Your boat buying is an example, one example. Perhaps, I say this and I've never spoken with you before...so it's merely a guess...perhaps, you were the one with the bad attitude when he approached you or when you approached him, whichever the case may be.
All this being said - I'm here to learn something and to exchange information. I'm not here to offend anyone or make enemies, please do not misunderstand anything I have posted, I am in no way trying to offend anyone.