Selling and Mindsets

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 #1
Houston
Selling and Mindsets

When you engage in a selling encounter do you find that you usually already have an idea in your head of how things are going to play out?

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 #2
Marcus

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Originally Posted by Houston
When you engage in a selling encounter do you find that you usually already have an idea in your head of how things are going to play out?
For sure. I think everybody does it. Some people might not realize they are doing it and some people use it to their advantage by controlling their thoughts.

 #3
Houston

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Originally Posted by Marcus
For sure. I think everybody does it. Some people might not realize they are doing it...
I'm of the opinion that this is a MAJOR cause of success or failure and yet so few know and do something about it.

 #4
JacquesWerth
Belief in Your Believability

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Originally Posted by Houston
When you engage in a selling encounter do you find that you usually already have an idea in your head of how things are going to play out?
Houston, you are exactly right.

There are many things that go through the minds of salespeople when approaching a sales situation. However, there is an emotional factor, which Dr. Wayne Diamond describes as “Belief in Your Believability,” that may be the main factor determining a salesperson’s level of success.

One symptom that he says is very prominent in a large number of struggling salespeople is their belief that they have to work extra hard to get people to believe them.

Dr. Diamond, is a prominent Philadelphia psychotherapist who has treated a large number of salespeople and entrepreneurs. He is currently conducting a series of interactive teleconferences, for small groups of salespeople, titled Overcoming Skepticism and Distrust.”

 #5
salespro

Your mindset determines the outcome ahead of time. Be positive, think positively. Your prospect can read your INTENTION like a book. They pick up your vibration of thought and ususally act accordingly.
THINK the sale is done ahead of time. Follow your sales process. Spend commission!


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Salespro

 #6
Houston

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Originally Posted by salespro
Your mindset determines the outcome ahead of time. Be positive, think positively. Your prospect can read your INTENTION like a book. They pick up your vibration of thought and ususally act accordingly.
I agree Salespro. When I hear "Assume the Sale" that is what comes to mind.

 #7
Fitness Trainer

I dont htink this is a major revelation to anyone who has done any reading on "success" etc,

I KNOW ahead of time that my negative mindset is predestining me to fail and not make sales and not draw people to myself.

a monkey could tell that much.

the problem is how to fix it, lol. When u have sort of been on the bottom and are accustomed to seeing others prosper while u languish, how do you then find a way to turn that around?

this is the exact situation I see myself in right now. As a trainer id put my knowledge and expertise up against ANYONE in my gym. Yet they have plenty clients and I have 2. Its all mindset..they see themselves as winners and I see myself as soemthing less.

like I said, a monkey could tell me that.....how in the hell does one turn it around?

public perception is always drawn to the flashy types even if there is no substance there....so one is just screwed if they are not a loudmouth flashy type?

 #8
Mikey

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Originally Posted by Fitness Trainer
...public perception is always drawn to the flashy types even if there is no substance there....so one is just screwed if they are not a loudmouth flashy type?
How well is that belief serving you? What led you to choose that belief instead of something else?

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 #9
Fitness Trainer

thats just what I see more of.

Like for whatever reason I was brought up with that low self esteem and either 'taught' or learned to not make a lot of noise...not try to draw attention myself. Ok, fine. Kids should be seen and not heard etc.

But that doesnt seem to work so well in life.

for instance one of the top trainers in our gym....he's mr flash, mr hollering at the pretty girls across the gym so everyone can see it. he has more clients than he can handle even though he doesnt really have much technical knowledge.

Another guy was a trainer there and he now split off and has his own personal training gym and he recently expanded. This guy was out of shape himself and hardly ever worked out. Youd THINK that when he did that 1x per month workout he'd just keep it low key...NOPE!! him and his buddy would count each rep out LOUD on each exercise. it was just a total blatant screaming of 'look at me! look at me". But damnit, it seems to work. dude has his own gym and I have 2 clients, lol

2 be fair I do see examples on the other side of things. the guy makign the most money trains old peeps and he himself is pretty low key. he aint in great shape either although he uses pics from 10 years ago when he was in good shape in his ads, lol. We talked one day and he told me I looked at it all too competitively and that he didnt even try to get clients from inside the gym. He put flyers up in like chiro offices etc then next thing u know the chiropractor himself wanted training etc. he wrote a book. http://www.amazon.com/How-I-Lost-100...5429009&sr=8-1

he writes articles for mags etc. He advertises heavily in a local classified ad paper. (no way i can afford it....I did one week at $54 and got not even 1 call. I simply cant burn money like that..I dont have it currently)

He has been at it for like 10 years though. He has a big rented space on the gym wall with a big tarp thing with his cheesy website on it. http://www.trainwithdave.com

So he is showing another model with more of a long term approach. I suppose that would be more of a model for me since im NOT a fast/smooth talking salesman type. but DAMN, I need clients now, not in 6 months or a year with tons spent up front, lol

My hat is off to the guy because he is finding a way to make it work. He gets $50/session while basically the rest of us get around $20. Me, I cant even get people to bite on $20 sessions. THATS freaking sad, lol.

The "loud" types dont even have biz cards, they dont put up any flyers. Youd never know they existed except for word of mouth and the gym owner pushes them, period.

 #10
Mikey

It looks like the beliefs you're operating from are not serving you well. What would you need to know to be willing to make a change?

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