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#11
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Originally Posted by Salecanon
There are a few simple rules you can follow to help you
become a better listener, therefore enhancing your
conversation skills.
1. Stop talking.
It sounds very simplistic but if you are constantly
talking, how can others express themselves? Make an effort
to shift the focus of the conversation to the other person.
There is more to conversation skills than talking...
Be aware of your own body language. Match the other
person's body language by leaning forward when they lean
forward, etc.
Attention to small details will give the person you are
speaking with a feeling that you truly hear what they are
saying and that you are genuinely interested in their
opinions. This is a secret of good conversation skills.
2. Pay attention to the tone of your voice.
Even if you are only giving brief answers or asking short
questions, the tone of your voice plays a major part in
communicating effectively and displaying good conversation
skills.
If your tone suggests a condescending attitude, boredom, or
anger, you will lose your audience and people will no
longer want to spend time speaking with you or listening to
what you have to say.
Superior conversation skills are based on mutual respect.
A respectful, preferably friendly tone will allow you to
communicate efficiently and earn you the respect of others.
3. In order to move the conversation forward, ask questions
to clarify or invite additional information.
Questions indicate that you are fully attentive to what is
being said and that you have a real interest in the speaker's
views.
Give your full attention to the speaker. When you show
others that you want to hear them, they will automatically
grant you the same courtesy. Do this and your conversation
skills will improve.
4. Engage in light, pleasant conversation as often as you
engage in meaningful, direct conversation.
If you always guide the conversation in the direction of
achieving your goal, you will leave the impression of
distance and a superior attitude. This is not a hallmark of
great conversation skills.
People want to feel appreciated and unique. Make a point to
address each person you encounter and do so in a positive,
friendly manner. Conversation skills include treating
others as you would like to be treated.
Good conversation skills include much more than simply
speaking with others. Listening, good body language,
questioning, pleasantries, and mutual respect are important
elements in any conversation and are also personality
traits exhibited by successful people.
| WOW,
That's pretty enlightening Salecanon |
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