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Originally Posted by Gold Calling
Skip, there are a few reasons why people do not post. And one is ridicule. My example is the post topic "Fake it till you make it". I was trying to make a point about people's perception and another forum contributor stated my position was amoral. They simply misunderstood me.
Now I have thick skin, so no need to worry about me. But others read these posts and think twice about posting, just to stay out of harm's way. It is for this reason that the moderator of the forum should delete posts, just to keep the general feeling more inviting. What is your policy on this?
I have one more comment. Twice I have had the phone ring after realizing that I have posted and the post was not what I intended. I would like to keep contributing but not if I have to ignore the phone and not if I get caught because I only have 5 minutes to edit my post - as it may not give the right impression.
30 minutes would be more reasonable. If I can put it this way this is a strong suggest for change.
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Hi Gold, for the record, I am not the moderator of this forum, I'm just a participant, but in my previous post I wanted to encourage those many people who are members who haven't posted to make their first post, or lurkers to go ahead and join up and become part of the community.
Personally, I share some of your concerns. There are some mean-spirited people here, as I guess you'll find in any community, and some people who like to repeat their positions over and over and over again, and some people who self-promote their products/services ad nauseum. Others are truly remarkable, kind people, and want to either learn, or help, or both.
There's a difference between ridicule and healthy debate. I like healthy debate. I don't like ridicule. I don't care for self-centered "I'm the best and the greatest" type people.
I'm not sure how I feel about deleting posts by the moderator. That's a tricky thing. Gold, that would be a good topic to start a thread on.