usakr;
Skip was right to ask what you are saying. You may be causing some of your own objections without realizing it.
In general, assumption is your best attitude. Like, when they ask "Do you really have to come to my house?" An effective answer would be something like; "There are several reasons why I may not be able to do the best for you that I can unless I do come out to see you. And most of those reasons no one could guess at without both seeing the house and asking you specific questions. Look, ___________, I am not trying to come there and put some pressure tactic on you to buy. The goal is to make sure you are informed so that you can make the best decision for you. So, beleive me, yes a meet at your house is imperative and no, you will not have to throw me out to get rid of me after I share with you what will be the best recommendations for you ... Now, would tonight at 7:30 PM work for me to come there or would you prefer me to come by on Thursday evening at the same time?"
Dealing with the objection is what makes you successful. When you hear an objection it is GOOD, not bad. Because if they were not interested they would not object !!!!!!!!!!
Objections are good things. They indicate a level of interest but in addition, the prospect simply does not have all the information needed to understand that they need to make the decision, in this case deciding to agree to the "action plan" (a meeting).
When it happens, be happy!