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Why couldn't you make them aware by bringing a problem to their attention?
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There is a monumental difference between uncovering a problem and getting someone to see the weakness in their current solution.
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What is the difference?
Great questions!!
If a person is in denial about their issue, they won't consider the current situation a problem. Basically they won't even see it.
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you may see it as a problem that can be solved. Asking a person questions will go a long way in helping you understand
their point-of-view. If they're in denial they still won't see your point-of-view. So, it's impossible to
make them see something else.
Abraham Maslow once said, "If your only tool is a hammer, everything starts to look like a nail." If your only tool is use questions to force people to see your point-of-view, then that's how you'll use the skill. Unfortunately a person who does this will miss the opportunity, as you say, to build a long-term relationship.
Making comes from an ego perspective. To be successful in sales, a person needs a reasonably large ego -- just to survive the constant rejection. If you hammer a person with either a pitch or even with questions, they'll pull away.
The hardest thing for many salespeople is to hold their ego back when asking questions. The ego is going to want to jump to conclusions (solve their problem) without hearing the complete story.
Thanks again for your questions.
Greg -gstebbins
Either way, asking questions will tell you what is on the client's mind. You'll have to separate his or her answer to determine if there is any pain. If there is pain, then you need to ask further questions to understand the consequence to the client. Stubbing my toe won't send me to the hospital, arterial bleeding will.
You can't make a client aware of their problems, you can ask questions that cause them to think about their issues differently. They'll decide if there are any consequences or not. If there are, then you have an opportunity to sell your solution. -gstebbins