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I certainly won't call it dishonest by any stretch of imagination. We should not give distorted meanings to words and use those words to demean people on the basis of the distorted meanings.
Ganesan.
I agree wholeheartedly with your point about the reason many people procrastinate ("afraid of taking a wrong decision").
However, I can't agree with an inference that qualifying my use of the word "honest" was an attempt to demean. In fact, I inserted that qualification for the purpose of making sure that it was not to reflect on any character issues.
A discussion that includes the word "honest" does not have to cover dishonesty, and the moral baggage it carries, anymore than a report of a heat wave needs to include references to below zero temperatures in Alaska.
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By "honest" I mean is it a question used as an attempt to truly gain information rather than to challenge the prospect's request that they be allowed to think about it (which is really no request at all, of course.).
It is a core belief of mine that the best and most effective questions in selling are authentic attempts to gain information. I focus a lot on that topic, because I believe it needs much focus.
The thread's title is: "What is the best sales question you have heard?"
I have heard a lot of good questions, and I ask a lot of good questions. I chose to discuss here Why is a Good Question Good. As I'm sure you know, the WHY is often more important than the WHAT. -Gary A Boye
"Tell me the 3 things you like best about the (product) (service) (company) you're using now."
"If you had a Magic Wand, what are 2 or 3 things you might want to change?"
"Why would those be important to you?"
Many times these will help bring out a need or a problem that they either didn't realize they had or they weren't being completely honest with you in the first place.
Have a "FANTA$TIC" Future!
Stan Billue, CSP -Stan Billue