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Besides 'being interested' how do you build openness, trust and respect and what does 'respect' mean?
Humans are emotional creatures. Business to customer sales are primarily driven by emotional responses. Part of that sales process is creating a personal connection with the prospect. And I think that is what you mean by building openness, trust and respect.
The goal is to get the prospect to view you more as a personal friend, rather than a dreaded salesperson. The advice and recommendations of a salesperson is received with skepticism, since there is always a question whether the salesperson is saying something just to make a sale. But the advice and recommendations of a friend is excepted without hesitation and assumed to be true. Thus, a salesperson gains a huge advantage if he can get the prospect to quickly view him as more of a friend than a salesperson.
How is this connection built? Without going into great detail on each, there are 7 tactics that work incredibly well in the field.
1) Commonalities: People bond with others who are similar to them. Therefore, seek and declare the various ways and things you have in common with the prospect. The more you are like him, the easier it will be for him to like you.
2) Agreement: Express agreement with opinions and views expressed by the prospect. Again, people like people who are similar.
3) Compliments: Compliments, especially those regarding personality and character traits, convey social approval, an innate emotional need of all humans. Don't waste a compliment on their clothes, car, etc... compliment personal traits, "You're very smart, savvy, intelligent, etc."
4) Humor: People are drawn to people who make them feel good. If you can get a prospect to smile or laugh, he will be more emotionally drawn to you on a personal level.
5) First Name: Make a special effort to address the prospect by first name as soon into the interaction as possible. The first name address conveys a sense of personal relationship, while last names convey a sense of business (ie... dreaded salesperson). Friends (which is what you want to be) address each other by first name.
6) Elicit Personal Experiences: Entice prospect to relate personal experiences (events, views & opinions, etc.). By relating personal experiences the prospect is revealing his personal life and views. He is drawing you into his personal life and relating to you in a personal way.
7) Relate Personal Experiences: Just as you want to entice the prospect to relate his personal experiences, you likewise want to relate your personal experiences to the prospect. When both sides are relating and conversing in a personal way, they are creating a personal bond.
Once a personal connection has been created (salesperson viewed as a friend) the prospect will more easily give trust and respect. That simply means the opinion, advice and view of the salesperson is accepted, assumed to be true and valued by the prospect. For these types of sales, this is the pivot point. Once the salesperson has won the trust of the prospect, everything else is academic.
Hope this helps :) -The Sales Artist
In the customer understanding area what do you usually look for?
David Cowper, a phenomenally successful insurance guy in Toronto, expressed as one of his five qualifiers: Do they understand their need?
I adopted it successfully several years ago along with his other recommendations on qualifying. -Ace Coldiron